The thing about knowing I am living this journey is that it sustains me even when life gets so chaotic that I cannot post. I meant to post about our Hallowe’en creativity on Friday night or Saturday, but the weekend ended up being far different that we expected when Bethany began to run a high fever on Saturday afternoon along with her cough. We’ve kept her in isolation at home and treated her with medicine to reduce the fever which seems to be working for now as we keep a close eye on her. GIven all the fear about the H1N1 pandemic, we are being cautious and vigilant, hoping that it is some other germ in our house.
Thursday night, Bethany had a Hallowe’en dance at her school. She dressed up as a rock star and spent two hours dancing or talking with her friends.
Friday was a fun but tiring day. I was teaching at Harrison Trimble for the 4th day that week and everyone was encouraged to dress in costume. Erin went as a fairy GOTHmother and I dressed up as a zombie, thinning out the make-up I used for She-Hulk and using the same wig, I ripped up one of Nick’s oldest shirts and made a very scary impression on a lot of the high school kids. Imagine coming around a corner in a hurry and running into 6’5” of zombie teacher! For an extrovert who loves playing up on my inches, I was having a blast!
After school, we went to pick up Bethany at her school and watch the last minutes of her volleyball tryouts. She’d had a sock hop in the afternoon and then the tryouts, so she was feeling a bit tired as we headed home to change both girls into their costumes for working up at Magnetic Hill’s fundraiser that evening. Boo at the School meant that the entire gym of Nick’s school had been transformed into a spook walk as a fundraiser for the Grade 8 class trip at the end of the year. There was a bake sale, a BBQ, some other sales and the spook walk. Erin was dressed up as an old fashioned school teacher in pioneer dress teaching a class of zombie children to repeat words like disembowel. Bethany dressed up in her Dorothy costume and played hopscotch in the “graveyard”. Nick was the Frankenstein principal asking people for their hall passes and I helped a witch greet people at the door and break them into groups. For the first 2 hours, everyone was fairly enthusiastic, but in the 3rd hour, it got a little harder to stay “fresh” at their roles. Bethany seemed especially tired, but I chalked it up to her busy day. I drove the girls home as soon as things were over then came back up to help Nick and the parents take everything down in the gym. She seemed fine when she posed for this picture after stealing Dad’s headgear...
By 10:30 the next morning, we were back at the school for a volleyball match between Erin’s 15U team and the 16U team in the Roofers club she belongs to. It was great volleyball and each team won 2 matches, but Bethany seemed really tired and whiny. We got her some soup for lunch and pot stickers at our favourite restaurant Happy Wok and then headed home. She fell asleep for 2 hours and when she woke up, she was flushed and burning up with a fever of almost 102! Needless to say, my thoughts of writing everything up as the blog post went out the window...
The fever comes and goes, so she will be home with me tomorrow. No doubt my creativity will be put towards keeping a sick daughter entertained in her room.
INHALE: In our busy, modern day world, we sometimes feel as if we are expected to keep going no matter what. If we are sick, we take a pill or something. If this flu season is teaching us ANYTHING, it is reminding us of the need to listen to our bodies when they get sick or tired and grant them time to heal, time to get better and time to keep our germs to ourselves.
EXHALE: One of the ways you can enjoy a bit of tasty Creativity even when you aren’t sick is to find a warm drink that you enjoy. There are many wonderful herbal tea blends out there to sample, cider to warm with cranberries and cinnamon or a splash of orange juice. My stepfather, John, has been playing with ways to make his own really chocolaty cocoa drink that has less artificial ingredients than some of the powders out there. Sniff a few herbal tea boxes in the grocery aisles or delight in the artwork and creativity of the many Celestial Seasonings blends. Their box artwork and creative copy are almost as lovely as the teas themselves. Tazo ’s chai flavour has been another favourite of mine for a few years, especially with a splash of skim milk. Miso soup is another wonderful warm drink. Some cultures swear by a crushed garlic clove in hot water to fend of germs and there is always the traditional chicken noodle soup. Whatever you choose as your warm drink, wrap your hands around a great mug and sit quietly for a few minutes to sip some stillness along with your beverage. The world will still be waiting when your mug is done.